To Ignore or Not Ignore, that is the question

Somewhere in the Middle

When I was a child, I used to think that we were born into our families in order to be our parents’ servants.  Y’know, child labour.  No really, I really DID think that was my purpose for being alive, to serve these big people.  Just a straggling [...]

This is why I look so tired.

SO TIred.  is how i feel.  And how I’ve felt much of this year.  I know I’m a broken record to people who ask, but it is what it is right now.   Max is now one year old and still wakes up at 4:30 in the morning expecting me to come and help him [...]

Life Lecture #1

Okay my lovely readers, this is a take it or leave it kinda post. And since I’m kinda sitting on the fence with it, I know it’s better to jest get it out there. All right then…and this is because I care…

Life Lecture #1

inspired by a lecture I gave to Lula who was [...]

Racin' to a schoolin'

A few mornings ago, my 6 yr old kid Lula and her friend were discussing ‘family’ on the drive to school.  They discovered that they both have cousins from Edmonton named Mackenzie, then Lula decides to discuss RACE and was like, “my Mom’s side is Chinese, and my dad’s side is……(she trails off,  tries a [...]

What love feels like

My daughter Lula has this ritual at bedtime.

Just as we are about to make the escape from her room and close that door behind us, she calls out, “Can you stay with me for just one minute?” and anyone with a brain knows what that means, and when we agree because we have accepted that [...]

The truth of Motherhood at 5:15 pm

If any of you are stay at home mothers, and have just spent all day long (10 plus hours) alone with your young children, engaging, playing,  soothing, teaching, cleaning and picking up after them and picking them up, I get that you want to scream and I get that you want to cry and [...]